I don't like to share the pain. I don't see the point of it. Anytime I try it I just end up regretting it, so why bother? I only want to share the joy, and keep the pain between me and God.
On the other hand, though, I don't mind if somebody wants to cry on my shoulder, or even retreat into some cave and weep and weep and weep their soul out to me. That's fine. That is not a problem.